1 00:00:04,370 --> 00:00:02,090 they've been using shame against people 2 00:00:05,630 --> 00:00:04,380 who had honest experiences and telling 3 00:00:07,490 --> 00:00:05,640 them that it didn't happen the 4 00:00:09,350 --> 00:00:07,500 psychological burden on people like that 5 00:00:10,850 --> 00:00:09,360 is tremendous that you know that you saw 6 00:00:12,589 --> 00:00:10,860 something and they tell you that you 7 00:00:14,870 --> 00:00:12,599 didn't that to me is what bothers me 8 00:00:16,790 --> 00:00:14,880 about the military stance on this is 9 00:00:18,590 --> 00:00:16,800 that if there's something so dangerous 10 00:00:20,929 --> 00:00:18,600 there that we shouldn't know about it 11 00:00:22,550 --> 00:00:20,939 then maybe the danger is not that we 12 00:00:23,689 --> 00:00:22,560 don't know about it the danger is that 13 00:00:26,029 --> 00:00:23,699 you're actually telling people that 14 00:00:28,070 --> 00:00:26,039 they're wrong what's more damaging to 15 00:00:30,830 --> 00:00:28,080 society telling people that they've seen 16 00:00:33,590 --> 00:00:30,840 something and making them unsure about 17 00:00:35,930 --> 00:00:33,600 it or hiding some Grand secret if there 18 00:00:37,549 --> 00:00:35,940 is a secret is it because the people who 19 00:00:39,110 --> 00:00:37,559 have the secret to using it or because 20 00:00:41,330 --> 00:00:39,120 there truly is a reason we don't want 21 00:00:43,310 --> 00:00:41,340 anybody to know about shame is used by 22 00:00:45,049 --> 00:00:43,320 Society to control you it's a Control 23 00:00:47,030 --> 00:00:45,059 Function it's useful in certain 24 00:00:49,490 --> 00:00:47,040 circumstances but when it becomes a 25 00:00:52,130 --> 00:00:49,500 societal control problem then that's 26 00:00:53,389 --> 00:00:52,140 when people need to get together and say